Ever catch yourself getting defensive when things hit too close? Welcome to The Defensiveness Club—where your mind quietly protects you from uncomfortable truths. These mental shields may feel harmless, but they can block self-growth and deeper connections. The first step to breaking free? Recognizing them. So what do we do with these kinds of defense mechanisms then ? Well for starters we can start to know what they are ? And then see on how we can better ourselves. Sounds like a plan ?